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Your job is not to judge.

Your job is not to figure out if someone deserves something.

Your job is to lift the fallen,

to restore the broken,

and to heal the hurting.

I am no better than any other human being on the planet; nor any worse.  I have not walked in any one else’s shoes but my own.  That’s all I know.  So how can I judge?

I don’t need to judge you out of fear any longer.  It’s only when I need to prove myself that I pretend to be better than I truly am.  Being comfortable in one’s own skin eliminates that fear and need for acceptance.

I have no control over people, places or things nor do I want it.  My purpose is not to tell people what to do, my way or the highway, because I know better.  So not true.  And who do I think I am to deprive you of your very own journey with your very own Higher Power?

I am here to help those around me who are struggling as others were there for me.  I am no longer broken.  I am no longer hurting.  And I want that for you.

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