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He who blames others

has a long way to go on his journey.

He who blames himself is halfway there.

He who blames no one has arrived.

Chinese Proverb

I try to look at everything that is placed on my plate of life as non coincidental…as perfectly orchestrated.  For me, this perfect event or interaction has been placed there by a god of my own understanding.  Placed there for me to grow, to learn, to be a better person.  And then to share that experience and knowledge with another human being who might be going through a similar situation.

If I look at everything in this way, there is no need to blame if it’s all perfect in my god’s world.  No one is right.  No one is wrong.  There is no good person nor bad person.  We are all God’s children and loved equally.

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